Man U-Barca

I like Barca. We know that already.

Tonight they played semi finals. Everything was at stake, the dream was happening tonight, could have happened, but it said STOP tonight at Old Trafford. 

On the front page of Barca.com it said ” The dream depends on Old Trafford”.

Sad to see this seasons mistakes and all the injuries… But I guess that´s football they say.

I´m still “new” in this world and my girly side comes out when I watch these important games. I become too emotional.  Here is where it shines through that I may not be Mr Mjällby or Olof Lundh… 
I have still to learn that football has to be both suffering and pleasure, and it´s always going to go up and down, for ALL teams.

Anyway, this is not what I was gonna talk about at all…
Christian Ronaldo has been on my mind the last week.

Great player in some ways, but un-mature, un proffesional and THE wrong attitude. He doesn´t deserve it, you know what I mean?

By falling everytime he hits an ant, by waving his arms to his team, making stupid faces and yelling, screaming like a kid when something doesnt go his way, just turns me off DESPITE the fact he looks really really good.

Take Liverpool for example. How they handled last weeks fiasko.., They have such a team spirit, such support for eachother, there is no one-mans-show there…

Man United and Real madrid, ESPECIALLY Man United, are so much about single stars. GREAT stars yes indeed, but football is a team sport, the team should work together, the fans come together, everybody should be on the same side through it all. Isn´t that what it´s about? Coming together for something we truly believe in and that makes us feel alive?

I can honestly say that all of Ronaldos goals mean NOTHING when he acts the way he does. I don´t care if he scores a million goals this season. The fans shouldn´t believe in a person only because he scores. They should believe and support a team. They should cheer and not turn down through hard times.

I love how Rijkaard said to the media last week that Ronaldinho should be remembered in Barca for the absolutely amazing things he did, not for the bad shape and bad luck he has strugled with this year.

It is so true! People tend to have such a short memory sometimes. Ronaldinho did things that Ronaldo never will do, he did things and brough happiness and a united feeling that Rooney will never ever do.

I don´t know, maybe this is where fan group 1 separate from fan group 2. Maybe some people only care about results, stars and trophies.  Maybe the other group care about team spirit, support, fun entertaining football, supporting good causes and being there for eachother…

I know what group I belong to.

Watch this and how they call Ronaldo “A disgrace to football”

Lie With Me

As I was standing in the video-rental place a couple of days ago I was realizing there was nothing I felt like watching at the regular “News-section”. Just when I was about to give up my eyes fell on a dvd with a half naked man and a half naked woman on the cover (hard to miss Duuuhhh) The name of the movie was “Lie With Me” and the brief summary on the back saying it was about 2 people having a hard time to fall in love caught me immediately. 
To be honest I forgot about the dvd until 2 days later when I found it in my bag…

So I watched it. Now I recommend you to watch it too. Very different, kind of weird but VERY emotional and touching… 

Latino Magic!

Once and for all I´m now going to explain to yáll what it is about latinos that makes us go “Oh My GOD!”

I love them. I love them I love them I love them. My friends love them!

 

I´ve only dated latin guys the last year I think…hm…yeah I have.

Italian, Spanish and now French. I know I know, french is not latino, but it´s more the southern meditteranean cost mentality that attracts me.
The passion:
He tells you how wonderful you are
He declares passion for you
He maske you feel like a woman
He loves every part of your body
He doesn´t care if you play games or if you don´t say the same thing back to him – He keeps drowning you with love

He can dance, he speaks loud, his laugh comes from his heart, his smile is huge, his eyes are golden dark brown, he treats you like a lady, he is polite and he adores you.

YES. Women fall in love with their ears. We NEED to hear it. We need to feel it. We´re so much more complex than guys!
 

Yesterday my best friend said “Not in a million years I could fall in love with a swedish guy, never EVER. They are as boring as shopping in the same store every day. You know what you get, they are 100% predictable, they can´t teach you anything, they just roll with the middle-class flow” 

I don´t want somebody that has gone on industrial vacation 10 years in a ow with other swedes, has visited the same store I have in Sweden, has done the same things that everybody else have done here. 
I want somebody who can show me an old castle in france that I would have never discovered without him. A family restaurant in a small village in Andorra where no tourist has ever been. A hidden beach on Italy’s east coast that  you have to climb down to reach or reach it by boat… Somebody who have never tried meatballs, or who can show me how a REAL Paella should be served. Take me to a game of American Football, Spanish Rueda Casino, Italian soccer on Sanciro, French hiphop show… I don´t know, just different from where I come from and different from what I´ve already seen!

TRUST

I believe in gut feeling and intuition. Almost too much maybe… Sooner or later it´s gonna bite my ass I´m sure, but so far (knock on wood) it´s been correct every time.
So I´m about to rent this apartment i Barcelona. Looks very nice and it kind of cheap. has everything I need (good internet and centrally located)

The girl is french, and she wants me to pay the deposit and first months rent before I arrive.
Made my dad hysterical, but then again, my dad works at Interpol and sees this type of stuff go wrong every day all over the world.
“You´re gonna come down there and there will be bo apartment” he told me.
I admit, that would SUCK ASS. But I have a gut feeling here and of course, how typical would it be after I´ve written this that I´m wrong this time. Almost funny.
“But really dad, she sent me her passport picture with all her info” I tried…anly to be brought down to earth again “Yeah and how the HELL do you know it´s HER passport”????? my dad said and laughed at me. Oh well, good point, I changed passport 7 times when I was in the U.S and “forgot” about a visa many many years ago. 

So, yeah, I might be totally completely fooled here. 
I´m gonna send somebody over there I think… Just to check.

  

Action-Consequence

As everybody knows 10 year old Engla has now been missing for 4 days. Not very likely she is alive if you ask me.

They arrested a guy yesterday who was seen 30 seconds after she passed with her bike.
This guy is a convicted child molestor, has beaten up several people and is just a fucking whacko.
My question is not, is this the guy or not. My question, what the HELL is he doing out on the streets in the first place?

As a part of society you have responsibilities, like it or not. And you might make a few mistakes sure, you might even slap somebody once when you are really mad. But to rape a child, torture people, break into somebodys house and terrify them, rape them, hit them and cause life-long scars for that person takes away your right to walk on the same street as normal people who actually DO respect eachother. Sorry man, you had a rough childhood? Too bad, deal with it. We all have our shit and yes, some people may have more than others. But our meaning in life and what matters the day we die, is how we dealt with it.

I have no problem with locking such a fucked up peron in for life. I dont WANT him picking out apples next to me in the grossery store. I don´t want him eating popcorn next to me in the cinema. I don´t want him sitting next to me on the bus. I don´t want him in this world if I ever have kids. I don´t want him being able to travel to Indonesia and lay on the god damn beach drinking pina coladas when his victims are talking to a shrink to even be able to leave their house.

Fuck that!!! Sweden is a pussy coward society with no common sence when it comes to this.
Right and wrong are the two most subjective things in the world – sure. BUT there are some limits that you dont cross and if you do cross them anyway, it is a concious CHOICE. Then DEAL with the consequences!

 

Football night and Coronas

I want football night. I want a large screen tv, all the soccer channels in the world (OK I would be ok with La Liga, Premier League and League One. Spanish, English and Italian football is all I need but I want those, and I want a big kitchen. There I would do football night-football sunday and wednesday dinners. Make tapas until I faint and then serve a million ice cold Coronas. How NICE would THAT be? Fucking paradise!!!!

Also I wanna arrange football trips. 10 good friends, go to different games together. Tour the stadiums. Sneak into VIP rooms and party with Gerrard, Etoo, Fabregas and Sergio Ramos.
Then I want my sports car one day. Gotta have something to put all the grossaries in after I go sopping for my football friends

But I also want my girls-night with red wine, saganaki-cheese-bulgur-sallad dinner, “how-was-his-kissing-skills-talk”, “check-out-my-new-dress-talk” .

And a horse! A big horse that I can start jumping with. I would love to take up jumping.

Adult points

Having a glas of red wine by yourself. Enjoying your own company, reading a book while sipping on the Rioja

Sniffing the wine before tasting it

Looking a person in the eyes before AND after you toast

Walking into the water instead of diving

Saving for your pension, meanng = giving up on becoming filthy rich

Appreciating a nice person instead of a bad person

Playing golf

Staying home watching a saturday movie that starts at 8pm

Planning your vacation more than 1 month in advance

Renting a car on your vacation

Ordering water in the bar with your drink

Ask a person what he does for living before asking what he does for fun

Being at the same job for more than 1 year

Drinking Whisky, Cognac and Cointreau and not only pretending to think it tastes good but actually meaning it

Telling someone to fuck off when they don´t treat you right or when they are even being mean.

Young points:

Making out with more than 1 guy in one week

Making out with a guy who is less than a year older than you, OR even YOUNGER than you

Quitting your job without having another job ready

Being out having fun until 8 in the morning without worrying how tired you will be 2 days later

Asking the bartender to put in some extra vodka in your drink

Falling in love with a football player, a popstar or the guy in the underwear commercial

Asking you mom to tuck you in I will do this until I´m 100 I swear to God!)